me: i think i'm getting better at interviews!
Friday, August 17, 2012
my special skills
me: i think i'm getting better at interviews!
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
If I go down, will you?
Andrew: awwww. something has to turn up soon
Monday, April 30, 2012
heart broken
This email broke my heart.
I wanted so badly for this to happen, for him to showcase his work to over 200,000 + people.
For him to network, experience, learn, grow and then take all that he's learned and share with those back in Ghana.
I know I'm a believer that things happen for a reason, but this just sucks.
I'm glad he has a positive attitude about this... just gotta count this out and move on; continue to work with the children and keep trying.
kakra, kakra... things will come together.
xoxo.
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
when it rains, it pours.
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
hurricane lola
oh and here is a little conversation i had with my dad:
me: so did you scold her?
dad: no, i don't want her to be scared of me.
my dad... such a softy. this was also a day after she tore up his coffee pot. /: hurricane lola strikes again!!



1. she's quite the professional plant puller.2. tore up phone books.
3. garden hose that is now 4' shorter.
4. seriously, how do i stay mad at this pretty face?!
chunky rings.
Monday, March 5, 2012
i'm back
1. Bess NYC
2. Converse
3. Christian Louboutin
You can find my finished products on here: prettybangin.tumblr.com or lehdoit.blogspot.com
Monday, September 6, 2010
almost time to say obruni bye bye.
So although I don’t know this for sure, I’m almost positive that the couple of days before I leave my town will be like hell. People wanting this, demanding I give them that, wait… you really want my old musty socks? Ones trash is truly another’s treasure; I of all people should understand this… I love goodwill after all.
I guess the whole thing that I’m put off by is the fact that these people will demand things from me rather than me decided that I would like to give it to them. After two years I shouldn’t be surprised. Why shouldn’t I give them these things, why shouldn’t they demand them of me. I am after all, one of them, family.
To some degree. Sure I still get cheated at the market, I still don’t quite understand why after a year you still love to stare at me as if I’m some foreign species, I can’t eat fufu like it’s a bacon wrapped wiener (oh man, I can’t wait for those!) but these people have cared for me, fed me, and treated me not like a stranger, but as a sister.
This reminds me of a time that I was out of money and on the football field with a whole bunch of kids. I really wanted a pocky (frozen ice pop). I saw some kid playing with 10 pesewa, flipping it up and catching it. For a long time I argued in my head about asking this kid for his money. Finally my craving for pocky made the part of me that wanted to ask him punch the lights out of the part that didn’t. I called the boy over and asked him for his 10 pesewa. The boy didn’t even hesitate with his money; he just gave it to me. Like the boy, I didn’t hesitate and I took it, and went straight to buy pocky. I gave the boy back his change of 5 pesewa to which he also bought a pocky. While I was enjoying this pocky all by myself, the boy who gave me his money was also sharing his pocky with 5 other small boys that came around. I wish I had the generosity to share my pocky, but I’m not as sharing and generous. (Not to mention all the germs that those small boys carry around; after a 7 months of being giardia free I’m not about to start again.) And to make sure you leave this entry not seeing me as a totally horrible person, I found the boy the next day thanked him for his generosity and paid him back with interest.
Anyways, that concept of extended family and sharing everything that you have has been somewhat difficult for me. ( after all, I’m the only girl and the youngest of three) And I’m not just talking about grandparents, and uncles and aunts; I’m talking my second cousin, cousin’s wife, brother’s daughter needs to go to school. So since I’m in a better position to help, I help. To the extent where I could be seen as this girls father. But no, I’m just somewhere related. Yet, family. Thus, I must help take care of the family.
So while I may not have been able to accomplish what I had thought I would, I did gain one big family here in Ghana… and for that I am forever grateful, and will try my best to do all that I can, no matter how far away I may be, to forever help my new family.
And with that said, I can’t wait to see my family. The one that lives on a little rock in the middle of the pacific.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Sometimes things need to fall apart to be put properly back together.
So things kind of fell apart. I partially blame myself. After things were working well, I left for about two weeks. We had a conference at an uber nice hotel (air condition, hot water, meat with every meal, swimming pool, hot water) to reconnect with other volunteers and learn more about HIV activities and things that we can do in our towns to educate people about it. It was nice to be with volunteers, hearing their stories and talking about future events to collaborate on.
And well, when I came back I found the visitor centre closed. I heard that it was maybe open for three days and then after that they just put a sign on the door. Its hard to be mad, I mean the people that are working on this project are volunteering their time. So they have other jobs, jobs that earn them an income, to attend to and can’t make this their first priority, but there are at least five of them where they could have worked something out. They could have talked to one of their nieces or nephews who are probably out roaming the streets because they have nothing better to do. Maybe even talked to the men and women who just sit at their house all day long. But instead, it was just closed. With a sign saying to call a guide. No good. At all.
On top of that, the Ministry of Tourism is just causing more problems than solving or helping. We have been fighting with them since November for the right to manage the facility. Sending them letters, seeing them in person, calling them on the phone, fighting, fighting, and fighting. But no deuce. They say they’ll call us back in a week after their meeting. No call. I visit them in Accra to see whats up and voice what I think needs to be done to make this project work successfully for Ntonso and you. They say they’ll talk it over and call me. I wait. No call. I call them. They are still discussing it. They say they’ll call me. Still no call. UGH. You build this beautiful building for what?!
Then out of nowhere this company, Ghana Tourism Development Company Ltd comes to Ntonso. They say that the MOT has requested that they manage the facility in Ntonso so they’ve come to introduce themselves and talk with the main stakeholders. Although I’m not happy about the idea that another company will come to manage the facility, I am hopeful. I think the members of the TMT can take the experience that they have had with FM24 and use it as guidance for their interactions with GTDC.
So I am hopeful. I feel that GTDC has the money to help finance things that would be beneficial for Ntonso to improve as a tourist destination. I am hopeful that they will work out a better deal for the people who will work for the project. I feel that if this doesn’t work out, then the tourism project will never work.
I guess now we will just wait and see. Either it blows up and everyone loses. Or they work out a good deal and Ntonso won’t know what to do with all the damn tourist and all that damn money.
Oh yea, on a side and happy note.
I finally, after 22 months, have gotten… wait for it… electricity. And its so so so amazing. As I am walking towards my house I find myself smiling like a little girl in a candy shop. I will miss my candle lit dinners and bucket baths in the dark, but I think it won’t be hard for me to adjust.
I love my life so much that another year here wouldn’t be so bad.
twi word of the day: awradE (oh god!)
Sunday, April 18, 2010
shots shot shot shots shots shots shots!!

Monday, March 8, 2010
kakra kakra
I think that just might be my favorite word here in Ghana, kakra kakra. It means small, small. Like meti twi kakra. I know a how to speak a little twi. Or medi kakra. I eat a little. But ask me how the work is going here in Ntonso and I will say, kakra kakra. We are moving forward kakra kakra. (about damn time right?)
Anyways, I’m finally a bit excited and happy about the way things are going with the project here. It’s about the beginning of tourist season and we are going kakra kakra towards the directions of making this destination a five-star stop! (okay, we are still a long way… but a girl can exaggerate to make herself feel better.) Step one toward making it five-star… actually being OPEN! Check. We’ve been opened for just about a month now and have received about 65 visitors! I have a feeling now that we have been in contact with some tour guides and started passing out our brochures (Thank you Cal Lu Printing Services! You guys are awesome!) that more will start to come. Step two, bring artisans to come and work at the visitor centre… half-check. We have got a calabash carver to come and work at the visitor centre about a couple times a week and upon request when tourist come. We have kente looms and I think I’m going to start weaving soon! (usually only men weave, but I figure I have plenty free time, so I should weave too!) We are working on getting others to move, but no luck yet. The only downer part of this whole thing is that we are opened every day because I make sure we are open (not very sustainable, since I will be leaving at the end of the year… and for a month in june, but we’ll see how it goes). But I do think now that people within the Tourism Management Team see the potential that this place has to generate money for the community they are more committed to making it work. With that being said, we still have a lot of things to work out, but like I said kakra, kakra.
(can I get a hoorah!)
Mmm, so the other weekend was Easter weekend and although there was no Ho Easter (sad) Easter just might be my favorite time here in Ghana. Just for the fact that it always includes good friends, good food, and something exciting. This Easter it was something legen… wait for it… dary! (haha, sorry I’m like obsessed it everything Barney) Anyways, the Ghana Tourist Board puts on a festival in the Eastern Region for the Easter holiday which includes street jams, paragliding, lots of kebabs, and crazyness. (although, being here has decreased my crazyness… one night there was this music festival that started at 8 pm that we all wanted to attend, but when the time came around we were passed out. I woke up at like 9 trying to get people to go, but no one wanted to, so I just went back to sleep. I know, I’m uber lame now. Happy dad?) Anyways, back to the story… so I went paragliding!!! I jumped off a cliff and went up, up, and wayyy up in the air!! I was up there for so damn long that I felt sick at the end. Haha. But it was totally awesome and worth it.
I guess that’s about all for now, we are going to have an all-volunteer conference at the end of the month at an uber nice hotel. (wifi and pool for a week!) There is suppose to be a talent show (I was thinking about playing the harmonica) and a PROM! So all in all, I’m finally really happy with every day here… so happy that I’ve submitted a request to extend for a third year!!
(april fools… or maybe not. It would seem like a pretty good deal though, a year more I get to go home free for a month during the holidays and I get like 10G after I finish! JK, I can’t wait to come home and eat delicious food and go to Vegas! Oh and I guess get a job. And find my Honda! Oh and I guess hang out with all my family and friends!)
Okay well, miss you all tons back home… hope everything is going extra fabulous!!
Also why I kinda love being here… so today I was walking along and I see a group of kids with tin cans searching in the bush. They were all on the hunt for something, telling one kid who was under a log about where something was. I figured that they were finding those flying bugs so they could attach it to a string and play with it. So I continued on, went to talk to my friend and then started headed back in their direction, but they were off to a new place, looking under a tree… and so I’m really curious now as to what they are doing. So I peak into their cans and what do I find… lots of snails. So pumba and timon… sometimes I’m a bit jealous of the fact that they LOVE snails.
ps. internet is being stupid. so i guess i'll upload pictures later. and on another sad sad note... i have a fricken mouse again. and guess what it fricken ate... my blackberry track ball!!!! stupid stupid mouse. but i will get the last laugh.
i'm getting better at being faithful... sorta.
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
helloooo. hellloooo.
Monday, December 7, 2009
more more pictures!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
long time friend.
Mephloquin, mice, and scorpion king:
So you all know that I’ve had a mouse problem for some time, but lately its been annoying. I know where it hides out, but don’t know what to do with it. Do I kill it? How will I kill it? But what happens if it jumps at me again and I get rabies? So, since I have no idea what to do and keep forgetting to buy the stupid mouse trap, I guess it will just be my annoying unwanted company until I figure out something.
Then one night, I saw a massive scorpion in my room. At first I thought I was hallucinating. you see, I take mephaloquin (its malaria medication) and it causes you to intense and crazy dreams. Which, I didn’t have at first, but now I’m having. If I haven’t seen/talked to you in the past couple of years that has all changed because I have done so within the past month due to this medication. Anyways, back to the story, so I woke up in the middle of the night because I had to pee, and then with my flashlight I see a HUGE scorpion behind my shelves. I didn’t know what to do and had to pee bad so I just left to pee, and when I returned it was gone. (thus why I believed I was hallucinating) so I just went back to sleep… actually I think I took out my “where there is no doctor book” and looked up scorpion bites, when I realized it wasn’t a huge risk to my life, I went back to sleep.
The next morning, I woke up, looked behind the shelf and saw nothing… that’s when I really thought I was going crazy. But luckily, when the night creeped around, it appeared and reassured me that I’m not crazy. I didn’t know what to do with it, like the mouse… so I poked at it a bit with a stick, and it went back into hiding. I played this game with it for about a week… poke it and hide. I was going to leave it for my friend to come and see, but good thing I didn’t because he didn’t end up coming. So one night, I was reaching for my toothbrush and something started to crawl on my arm. Of course, I screamed like a little girl (it was a dirty small cockaroach) and then the people outside asked if I was okay. I told them yea… and was like, well, I do have this scorpion inside my room. They were like scorpion?! And I was like, yeaaa! And so the lady came in with a broom and smashed it! it was pretty awesome, and I’m quite jealous that I never had the guts to do it.
So, scorpion down, mice still around… I guess we can’t have it all.
Galla Galla Galla!!:
So my neighbor and I have been planning a football gala for sometime now, and yesterday it finally came! Of course like most things in Ghana, the event was suppose to start at 9 am, but we didn’t start until 10:30. But other than that, I think the event was pretty damn successful. We had education on HIV/AIDS and tourism during the halftimes and breaks of the games, the grand finale was a speaker who was living with HIV. Voluntary testing and counseling was also available at the event, they said they tested 200+ people which I was happy about because people kept telling me that no one would come because of the stigmatization that goes along with HIV. We just went to check with the district health services and found out that out of all the people they tested that day there were no positives, so thats a good sign, but still plenty education needs to be done to make sure that it is kept that way.
Motivation:
I’ve grown to HATE this word. Every time I went to the District Assembly to meet with the Cultural Officer to discuss the football gala with him, he kept telling me that I needed to motivate him. So I asked him one day what his job description was, and he said it was dealing with cultural events in the district, which includes anything dealing with kente, adinkra, woodcarving, etc, which includes tourism. This event was basically helping him do his job. Plus, all he does is sit on his ass all day and do nothing… and all the jobs we had for him to do, NONE got done. (causing much stress the day before, scrambling to find buses and security for the event) Then, after I paid the health worker for doing the testing at the event, she said it was too small (it was $15, which may seem small to you, but farmers who slave all day in the fields make $5 a day and I make $7 so I should’ve told her to shove it) and that I should add more to it. When I told her thats what the Head Nurse told me the fee would be, she demanded I give her toffee. So I just looked at her and walked away. Ugh, I can’t stand it sometimes. Everyone always asking asking asking for money. For toffee. For my bag. For my tshirt. For anything really. Kids I’m a little bit more understanding, but man, adults… especially the more educated one… I just can’t handle.
Peace and Unity:
I also started a club at the senior high school in the town next to mines (I wanted to do it in my town, but it was a Seventh Day Adventist SHS, and the headmaster told me I couldn't because I wasn't "one of them") Anyways, I haven't been able to meet with them weekly because of all the event drama, but I finally got to meet with them the other week. At first I thought it was going to be bad… when I first came to the school no one was there, and a teacher I ran into asked me if I reminded the students, kind of implying that if I didn’t they weren’t going to show up. I asked one of the girls who was standing around to look for the president, but when she returned, she told me he left for home. I was a bit disappointed, but thought I would hang out for a bit to see if anyone would show. Then a girl came in, and said that they were having classes or cadet, but said that she would go around telling them I have arrived and that they would be in shortly. And shortly, they started to come! The last week that we met we did the tangled arm spider web, and it was a complete failure. Half because they didn’t really understand my instructions, and half because I don’t think they are given enough freedom to make their decisions/problem solving. So when given a task where they have to make decision to help them get out of something, they are a bit confused. Its quite sad, everything is about memorization and you wouldn’t dare think about questioning or thinking for yourself. But this week, we tried again, and it was some what successful. I was sooo happy. Then we went to talk about capital for the company and splitting them up in different departments, like human resources, public relations, finance, production, and marketing. They've decided that they want to start a bead business, so once they've sold their stock and got money, we are going to buy beads, produce them, and start selling. sooo, anyone interested in beads? holla.
the cultural officer and the district chief executive talking to the players before the start of the match.
visual aids and lovely peace corps volunteers that came to help that day.
the speaker that we had for the event... he did an AMAAAZING job. more people were asking about being tested after he finished his speech... been living with HIV for 5 years now.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
no longer clean. ):
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Sunday, August 16, 2009
I play with sick orphan children in my free time, what do you do?
Julie and I decided to go to upper west to visit friends, play with hippos, find gifts and drink pito. Mostly everything on our to do list was unsuccessful; hippos don’t like to play in the rainy season, gifts were no where to be found (sorry folks back home, looks like your gift will just be me!!), and the pito was absolutely disgusting. So we decided that we didn’t travel 8+ hours for nothing, and went to our friend Adams site to eat his spam (yes, his parents sent him spam! And hes not even from Hawaii, but I guess thats what happens when everyone is broke… I even saw spam being advertised in an US Weekly magazine… damn… but sad story, we didn’t eat his spam.) and visit the clinic that houses sick orphaned children to spend time with them. Now, I’m not really a person who likes to touch dirty things (including beings) but these kids were just adorable. I’ll let the pictures do the talking.
look, even the fob with the hat is special.
this bad ass is kwame. he has tb of the bones.
Also, I’ve started doing vacation classes with the children in my community. I somehow go tricked into doing it, but so far its been good and I really enjoy it. It’s a bit hard at times because the children that come to the classes are in different grades, but somehow it works out. The kids are really adorable… I’ve been having to travel a bunch lately so I have the classes whenever I’m at home, but as soon as the kids see that I’m back in town, they’re all like… will we have class tomorrow?! Sucks that I’ll be gone for three weeks.
Mmm, what else… So I went back to Kukurantumi to see the new trainees swear-in as volunteers! I didn’t really want to go at first, but I’m so glad I did… mostly because I got to visit my homestay family! I absolutely miss them oh so much. It was really cool because I got to meet the volunteer that stayed with Major the year before me as well as the one that was currently staying with her… and then she invited us all over for dinner. It was fufu with goat and fish, and it was absolutely delicious! Its weird that I like fufu, but I guess since I don’t get it ever when I’m in Ntonso its like a treat to have it.
Anyways, my countdown is now three weeks! Sooo excited. Not looking forward to basically traveling for two days just to make it to America, but it’ll be so worth it… as long as I get some delicious Mexican food and a margarita. Mmmm, yes, can’t effen wait!!
Twi word of the day: me di fufuo (I eat fufu)
OMG, don't you love him?!



